Thursday, 4 December 2014



2 Juta adalah angka yang besar.

Atas dasar hadiah persaraan, seorang bilionair mahu memberikan 2 juta kepada pemandunya. Siapa sangka pemandu itu sanggup menolak tawaran yang sangat baik. Lebih tidak sangka adalah sebab mengapa dia menolak.

Pemandu kepada Li Ka Shing – LKS (Jutawan No 1 di Asia) telah berkhidmat lebih 30 tahun dengan LKS dan telah capai umur bersara. LKS sebagai tanda penghargaan telah memberinya cek bernilai 2 juta tetapi pemandu tersebut menolaknya kerana dia mendakwa sudah miliki 20 juta ditangannya. LKS berasa hairan kenapa bekas pemandunya ada simpanan sebegitu banyak walhal gaji dia cuma 6 ribu sahaja . 

Pemandu LKS akhirnya mendedahkan bahawa ketika dia menjadi pemandu kereta beliau, LKS selalu membuat pesanan kepada pengurusnya melalui telefon, memberi arahan supaya membeli tanah atau saham yang mana satu. Pemandu tersebut memasang telinga dan secara tidak serius dan diam-diam membeli saham-saham yang LKS arahkan kepada pengurus beliau. 

Lama kelamaan, selepas bermula secara kecil-kecilan bermain saham melalui curi-curi dengar arahan LKS kepada pengurusnya, pemandu tersebut berjaya mengumpul dana lebih 20 juta.

Moral of the story :

Dalam perjalanan hidup, amat penting untuk kita memilih dengan siapa kita bersama. Bak kata pepatah, cari tandas, ikut lalat, cari bebunga, ikut lelebah, cari jutaan, ikutlah jutawan!! Bersama orang yang rajin, anda tidak akan malas, bersama orang bertekad anda tak akan murung, bersama orang yang pintar, anda jadi luarbiasa, bersama orang yang hebat, anda pasti berjaya!!!

Sumber: dikopipes dari : pariajalanan.blogspot

Kalau rajin baca ni Li Ka Shing ajar cara nak kaya. Pakcik tak larat nak translate, baca je lah :

Hong Kong billionaire Li Ka-Shing shares some of his money wisdom, outlining an inspirational five-year plan to improve one’s lot in life
This article is translated from the original Chinese by Edmund Ng at CeoConnectz.
Suppose your monthly income is only RMB 2,000, you can live well. I can help you put money into five sets of funds. The first $600, second $400, third $300, fourth $200, fifth $500.

The first set of funds is used for living expenses. It’s a simple way of living and you can only be assigned to less than twenty dollars a day. A daily breakfast of vermicelli, an egg and a cup of milk. For lunch just have a simple set lunch, a snack and a fruit. For dinner go to your kitchen and cook your own meals that consist of two vegetables dishes and a glass of milk before bedtime. For one month the food cost is probably $500-$600. When you are young, the body will not have too many problems for a few years with this way of living.

Second set of funds: To make friends, expand your interpersonal circle. This will make you well off. Your phone bills can be budgeted at RMB 100. You can buy your friends 2 lunches a month, each at $150. Who should you buy lunch for? Always remember to buy lunch for people who are more knowledgeable than you, richer than you or people who have helped you in your career. Make sure you do that every month. After one year, your circle of friends should have generated tremendous value for you. Your reputation, influence, added value will be clearly recognized. You’ll also enhance your image of being good and generous.

Third set of funds: To learn. Monthly spend about RMB 50 to RMB 100 to buy books. Because you don’t have a lot of money, you should pay attention to learning. When you buy the books, read them carefully and learn the lessons and strategies that is being taught in the book. Each book, after reading them, put them into your own language to tell the stories. Sharing with others can improve your credibility and enhance the affinity. Also save up $200 per month to attend a training course. When you have higher income or additional savings, try to participate in more advanced training. When you participate in good training, not only do you learn good knowledge, you also get to meet like-minded friends who are not easy to come by.

Fourth set of funds: Use it for holidays overseas. Reward yourself by traveling at least once a year. Continue to grow from the experience of life. Stay in youth hostels to save cost. In a few years you would have travelled to many countries and have different experiences. Use that experience to recharge yourself so that you’ll continually have passion in your work.

Fifth set of funds: Invest. Save the $500 in your bank and grow it as your initial startup capital. The capital can then be used to do a small business. Small business is safe. Go to wholesalers and look for products to sell. Even if you lose money, you will not lose too much money. However, when you start earning money, it will boost your confidence and courage and have a whole new learning experience of running a small business. Earn more and you can then begin to buy long-term investment plans and get long-term security on your financial wealth being of yourself and your families. So that no matter what happens, there will be adequate funds and the quality of life will not decline.

Well, after struggling for a year and if your second year salary is still RMB 2,000, then that means you have not grown as a person. You should be really ashamed of yourself. Do yourself a favour and go to the supermarket and buy the hardest tofu. Take it and smash it on your head because you deserve that.
If your monthly income is at RMB 3,000, you must still work very hard. You must try to find a part time job. It will be great to find part time sales jobs. Doing sales is challenging, but it is the fastest way for you to acquire the art of selling and this is a very deep skill that you will be able to carry it for the rest of your career. All successful entrepreneurs are good sales people. They have the ability to sell their dream and visions. You’ll also meet many people that will be of value to you in the later part of your career. Once you’re in sales, you will also learn what sells and what not. Use the sensitivity of detecting market sentiments as a platform for running your business and in the identification of product winners in the future.
Try to buy minimal clothes and shoes. You can buy them all you want when you’re rich. Save your money and buy some gift for your loved ones and tell them your plans and your financial goals. Tell them why you are so thrifty. Tell them your efforts, direction and your dreams.

Businessmen everywhere need help. Offer yourself to do part time for any kind of opportunities. This will help to hone your will and improve your  skills. You will start to develop eloquence and soon, you’ll be closer to your financial goals. By the second year, your income should be increased to at least RMB 5,000. Minimum it should be RMB 3,000, otherwise you would not be able to keep up with inflation.
No matter how much you earn, always remember to divide it into five parts proportionately. Always make yourself useful. Increase your investment in networking. When you increase your social investment, expand your network of contacts, your income also grows proportionately. Increase your investment in learning, strengthen your self confidence, increase investment in holidays, expand your horizons and increase investment in the future, and that will ultimately increase your income.

Maintain this balance and gradually you will begin to have a lot of surplus. This is a virtuous circle of life plans. Your body will start to get better and better as you get more nutrition and care. Friends will be aplenty and you will start to make more valuable connections at the same time. You will then have the conditions to participate in very high-end training and eventually you’ll be exposed to bigger projects, bigger opportunities. Soon, you will be able to gradually realize your various dreams, the need to buy your own house, car, and to prepare an adequate education fund for your child’s future.

Life can be designed. Career can be planned. Happiness can be prepared. You should start planning now. When you are poor, spend less time at home and more time outside. When you are rich, stay at home more and less outside. This is the art of living. When you are poor, spend money on others. When you’re rich, spend money on yourself. Many people are doing the opposite.

When you are poor, be good to others. Don’t be calculative. When you are rich, you must learn to let others be good to you. You have to learn to be good to yourself better. When you are poor, you have to throw yourself out in the open and let people make good use of you. When you are rich, you have to conserve yourself well and don’t let people easily make use of you. These are the intricate ways of life that many people don’t understand.

When you are poor, spend money so that people can see it. When you are rich, do not show off. Just silently spend the money on yourself. When you are poor, you must be generous. When you are rich, you must not be seen as a spendthrift. Your life would have come full circle and reach its basics. There will be tranquility at this stage.

There is nothing wrong with being young. You do not need to be afraid of being poor. You need to know how to invest in yourself and increase your wisdom and stature. You need to know what is important in life and what is worth investing in. You also need to know what you should avoid and not spend your money on. This is the essence of discipline. Try to avoid spending money on clothing, but buy a selective number of items that have class. Try to eat less outside. If you were to eat outside, do make sure you buy lunches or dinners and foot the bill. When buying people dinner, make sure you buy dinners for people who have bigger dreams than you, and work harder than you.

Once your livelihood is no longer an issue, use the remainder of your money to pursue your dreams. Spread your wings and dare to dream! Make sure you live an extraordinary life!
Famous theory from Harvard: The difference of a person’s fate is decided from what a person spends in his free time between 20:00 to 22:00 . Use these two hours to learn, think and participate in meaningful lectures or discussion. If you persist for several years, success will come knocking on your doors.

No matter how much you earn, remember to split your salary into five parts. Take care of your body so that it will still be in good shape. Invest in your social circle so that you will constantly meet new people where you can learn new knowledge from. Expanding your network will also have an important impact in how much you earn eventually. Travel every year and expand your horizons. Also keep abreast with the latest developments in the industry. If you follow this plan diligently, you will soon see big surplus in your funds.
Whatever happened in the past is over. Do not dwell on past mistakes. There’s no point crying over spilt milk. Everybody makes mistakes. It’s what you learn from the mistakes, and promising yourself not to repeat those mistakes that matters. When you miss opportunities, don’t dwell on it, as there are always new opportunities on the horizon.

Being able to smile when being slightly misunderstood is good upbringing. When you’re wronged and you smile with calmness, it is generosity. When you’re being taken advantage of and you can smile, you’re being open-minded. When you are helpless and you can do a philosophical smile, you’re in a calm state. When you’re in distress and you can laugh out loud, you’re being generous. When you’re looked down and you can calmly smile, you’re being confident. When you’re being jilted in relationships and you can smile it off, you’re being suave.

There are many people who are struggling to make ends meet. It doesn’t matter if you are rich or poor. There are lessons for all to learn from Li Ka Shing.

Wednesday, 12 November 2014


HAKIKAT BUNIAN -Misteri Manusia Boleh Lihat Bunian

 Umat Islam tak digalak berkawan dengan makhluk ghaib kerana tidak diketahui beriman atau kafir.

Di sebalik dunia nyata yang kita tempuhi, ada kehidupan sama seperti manusia tetapi terselindung dan tidak dapat disingkap pancaindera biasa.

Penduduk alam ghaib itu dikatakan memiliki budaya setempat seperti bermain kompang dan berzanji, memiliki wajah dan fizikal seperti manusia.

Penghuni dunia itu juga hidup bermasyarakat, mendirikan rumah dan penempatan sama seperti kita malah dikatakan turut menunaikan haji dengan menaiki kenderaan sama seperti manusia.

“Apa yang membezakan orang bunian dengan manusia ialah jika berpakaian, semuanya mesti satu warna. Dari baju ke seluar sama warna,” kata Pengasas Pusat Rawatan Islam Manarah di Kuang, Selangor; Dr Jahid Sidik.

Dr Jahid yang juga bekas pensyarah Akademi Pengajian Islam Universiti Malaya berkata, selain warna pakaian; berdasarkan pengalaman dan kes yang dirujuk kepadanya, semua aktiviti bunian sama seperti manusia.

“Cuma manusia tidak nampak mereka. Dalam al-Quran juga menyatakan manusia tidak dapat melihat makhluk ghaib seperti syaitan, jin dan bunian kerana mereka tidak memiliki jasad. Manusia memiliki empat unsur iaitu air, api, tanah dan angin tetapi bunian menyamai jin hanya memiliki unsur api dan angin (menyebabkan mereka tidak berjasad),” katanya.

Beliau yang berpengalaman hampir 15 tahun dalam perubatan Islam berkata, sehingga kini ada dua teori dikemukakan mengenai kewujudan dan asal usul orang bunian.

“Mengikut cerita orang lama termasuk guru saya; asal bunian ialah apabila manusia berkahwin dengan jin. Sememangnya dalam kitab fekah ada perbincangan mengenai perkahwinan antara manusia dan jin.

“Berdasarkan pengalaman yang dirujuk kepada saya, membuktikan perkahwinan antara jin dan manusia memang berlaku dalam kehidupan ini,” katanya yang turut menjelaskan bahawa perkahwinan itu menyebabkan bunian memiliki rupa dan budaya seperti manusia tetapi memiliki unsur api dan angin menyamai jin.

Satu teori lain mengenai kewujudan bunian adalah mereka pada asalnya manusia alim dan soleh, taat kepada perintah Allah tetapi akibat sebab tertentu, mereka terlalai dan melakukan kejahatan.

“Akibat malu berhadapan dengan manusia, mereka berdoa kepada Allah supaya kewujudan mereka tidak dilihat manusia. Ada versi mengatakan kejadian ini berlaku pada zaman Sahabat tetapi ada yang mengatakan ia berlaku sebelum zaman Rasulullah serta pada zaman Nabi-Nabi terdahulu,” katanya.

Beliau berkata, manusia biasa tidak dapat melihat bunian atau jin tetapi keadaan itu boleh berlaku dalam beberapa keadaan tertentu, dengan izin Allah. Antaranya apabila ada jin atau bunian yang menumpang dalam badannya tanpa disedari individu itu.

“Ada orang berkata, bayi dapat melihat bunian atau jin kerana mereka masih suci. Itu tidak benar, sebenarnya bayi dapat melihat perkara ghaib itu kerana bunian atau jin menumpang di badannya.

“Ada satu kes seorang bapa mendakwa anak kecilnya istimewa (psikik) kerana dapat melihat benda ghaib. Selepas dibawa kepada saya, didapati dalam badannya ada jin dan selepas makhluk itu dikeluarkan, anak kecil itu kembali normal,” katanya.

Selain itu, manusia mampu melihat bunian jika makhluk itu menzahirkan jasadnya dan kebiasaannya kemampuan bunian menunjukkan fizikalnya berlaku apabila bunian itu mempelajari ilmu tertentu. Sebaliknya manusia juga boleh melihat bunian jika mereka mempelajari ilmu tertentu.

Dr Jahid menceritakan beberapa kes bunian yang dirujuk kepadanya sepanjang terbabit dalam bidang perubatan Islam itu.

“Satu kes di Kota Tinggi, Johor. Dua pemuda masuk ke hutan mencari rotan tetapi seorang daripada mereka hilang ketika hari hampir malam.

“Operasi mencari dijalankan tetapi lelaki itu tetap tidak dijumpai sehinggakan ahli keluarga dan penduduk kampung menganggap pemuda itu sudah meninggal dunia akibat dibaham binatang buas. Masa berlalu dan kehilangan pemuda itu semakin kurang dibualkan penduduk dan ahli keluarga.

“Tiba-tiba, kira-kira lebih setahun selepas kehilangannya, pemuda itu kembali ke rumah keluarganya dan membawa bersama seorang anak dan isteri,” katanya.

Pemuda itu menceritakan, pada hari kehilangannya, dia tersesat dalam hutan dan apabila menjelang malam, ketika mencari jalan keluar, dia terjumpa sebuah rumah.

Selepas berehat semalaman, pemuda itu meminta izin pulang tetapi disuruh pemilik rumah tinggal bersama mereka dan berkahwin dengan anak perempuannya.

Selepas setahun, lelaki itu diizinkan menjenguk keluarganya di alam manusia tetapi selepas itu, dia diberi pilihan oleh mentuanya sama ada ingin terus berada di alam bunian atau bersama manusia. Lelaki itu memilih kekal bersama anak dan isterinya di alam bunian.

Kes kedua diceritakan Dr Jahid berlaku pada tahun-tahun terakhir jemaah haji menggunakan kapal laut sebagai pengangkutan. Dalam sebuah kabin, ditempatkan tiga lelaki dan selepas berkawan, mereka bertukar alamat apabila ingin berpisah.

“Apabila pulang, seorang dari mereka yang tinggal di Kedah mengambil keputusan melawat kenalannya di Muar, Johor. Sebaik sampai di Muar, dia menunjukkan alamat kepada pemandu teksi yang berasa pelik kerana tiada kampung di kawasan itu.

“Apabila sampai, didapati memang tiada penempatan di situ, selepas berjalan masuk ke dalam sedikit, baru dia menjumpai kampung dan rumah kenalannya. Tetapi selepas beberapa ketika berada di tangga rumah kenalan itu, dia ditolak seorang pemuda dan sebaik terjatuh, dia melihat rumah dan kampung ghaib sebaliknya digantikan dengan semak belukar,” katanya.

Kes ketiga lebih menyedihkan. Seorang gadis meminta pertolongan Dr Jahid untuk memisahkannya daripada suaminya lelaki bunian. Beberapa tahun sebelum perkahwinan mereka, lelaki itu mendatangi gadis itu dan mengugut supaya mengahwininya atau gadis itu akan mengalami sakit misteri.

Gadis itu enggan menyebabkan dia diserang penyakit misteri selama dua tahun. Akibat tidak tahan menanggung kesakitan sehingga menyebabkannya lumpuh, gadis itu bersetuju berkahwin dengan lelaki bunian berkenaan.

Bantuan yang diminta daripada Dr Jahid bagaimanapun dibatalkan gadis itu dipercayai selepas diugut suami buniannya dan sehingga kini, tidak diketahui nasib wanita itu.


- Bunian tidak ditakrif dalam al-Quran tetapi keajaiban Allah sama seperti kejadian manusia kembar.

- Manusia yang bersahabat atau berkawan dengan bunian, menjatuhkan martabat mereka sebagai khalifah Allah.

- Tidak seperti jin yang boleh terbang dan memiliki kemampuan lain, Bunian hidup seperti manusia dengan berjalan kaki, bercucuk tanam cuma bezanya mereka tidak dilihat manusia walaupun hidup di alam yang sama.

- Bunian boleh menyakiti manusia secara ghaib tetapi bagi bunian yang mempelajari ilmu tertentu, mereka boleh menyakiti manusia secara fizikal.

- Rawatan digunakan Dr Jahid untuk merawat gangguan jin atau bunian adalah kaedah ketukan. 

- Tanda-tanda seseorang diganggu bunian atau jin adalah berkelakuan pelik seperti melihat benda ghaib, berat badan kekal tetapi apabila diangkat terasa berat selain kesan aneh pada tubuh badan.

- Manusia tidak digalakkan berkawan dengan bunian kerana sukar diketahui sama ada bunian itu benar-benar beriman atau kafir.

- Kaedah menjauhkan gangguan bunian atau jin adalah dengan menjaga ibadat wajib dengan sempurna selain memperbanyakkan ibadat sunat serta solat hajat, solat taubat dan berdoa.[Dari tulisan asal oleh Nasron Sira Rahim]

p.s :

Kawan pakcik (pemilik restoren kat KL) memang pernah berbual dan besembang dengan sepasang Bunian. Bunian ni kira hebat kerana boleh menzahirkan diri pada alam kita, berbual dan bersembang. Apa yang dapat kawan pakcik perhatikan ialah kakinya tak jejak lantai dalam setengah inci. Orang biasa memang tak perasan.Dia pulak boleh berbahasa semua bahasa kat dunia ni.Cuma dia tak sempat nak amik gambar. Lain masa pakcik dah bagitau dia pakcik nak jumpa nanti pakcik mintak amik gambar. Waallahua'lam.
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